Kennedy Street and FiM

Jim our Recovery through Nature lead as well as some of our service users from Langdon Hills will be attending a Facebook Live over on @kennedystcio page on Friday 30th April @ 12pm to discuss how Futures in Mind and our RtN groups have been an integral part of their recovery.

 

What’s Kennedy Street?

Kennedy street offer support and signposting to people interested in addiction recovery. If you are looking for recovery support or treatment, for yourself, a friend, family or work member, Kennedy Street can help.

Start your recovery journey now, call: 02034 163 643

Or visit the website; www.kennedystreetcio.org

 

Watch live on Kennedy Street’s Facebook: https://facebook.com/KennedyStCiO/?tsid=0.9971675344501205&source=result

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NEW outdoor groups

Now lockdown is gently easing we have a few NEW outdoor groups service users are able to attend. If you would like to attend any of these groups please book your referral via contacting your service coordinator, due to limited spaces.

 

North

Harwich Welcome café

Green space opposite, Park Pavilion, Harwich

Tuesday 11th May 2021@ 12pm -1pm – Fortnightly

 

Manningtree Welcome café

Café Rio, Manningtree

Tuesday 11th May 2021@ 10am -11am – Fortnightly

 

Brightlingsea Welcome Café

TBC

Thursday 13th May 2021@ 11am – 12pm – Fortnightly

 

Colchester Welcome café

Castle park, Colchester

Thursday 13th May 2021@ 1pm -2pm – weekly

 

Recovery through Nature

Beth Chatto

Fortnightly, Thursdays 10.30am

 

Mid

Chelmsford Welcome Café

Central Park, Chelmsford

Thursdays 12:00-14:00 (1st April start)

 

Braintree Welcome Café

Public Gardens, Braintree and Boking

Tuesdays 1pm – 3pm (6 April start)

 

Halstead Open Space, Outside Group

Halstead Public Gardens, Trinity Street, CO9 1JA

first Thursday of the month 10 to 11

 

Maldon Open Space, Outside Group

Maldon Promenade Park, Park Drive, Maldon, CM9 5JQ

2nd Thursday of the month 10 to 11

 

Witham Open Space, Outside Group

Guithavon Road, Witham, CM8 1HD

Wednesday 21st April 2, then 3rd Thursday of the month 10 to 11

 

South

Basildon Welcome Group

Costa coffee in Basildon town square

Tuesday 20th April 10-12

 

Outdoor Boxing/Fitness

Pitsea 10-12pm

Wednesday 21st April 10-12

 

Brentwood Welcome Café

King Georges playing field Brentwood

Wednesday 21st April 10-12 10-12pm

 

Rochford Welcome Group

King Georges playing field Rayleigh

Thursday 22nd April

 

Recovery through Nature

EWT Langdon Hills

Every Tuesday and Friday 10-1pm

 

West

Cycling group

15th April, Every Thursday Morning 9.30 – 12

starting on the Common Road Harlow.

Bring your own bike and protective equipment and meet outside Harlow Kebab.

 

Harlow Allotment RtN

8th April, Every Thursday Afternoon 1 – 3

Harlow Allotment, Stile Croft Bush Fair

 

Harlow walking group

Tuesday 4th May 1 – 3

Meeting point in the Carpark at Harlow Town Park.  (This is near the Greyhound Pub, School Lane, CM20 2QD.)

 

Loughton Welcome café – Outside group

Outside 5Rocks Cafe in Loughton

Tuesday 20th April 2021@ 10 -12pm – Weekly

 

The Waltham Abbey walking group

16th April – 10am until midday

Lee Valley Park, Waltham Abbey.

This will run once a month on the third Friday of every month.

 

The Waltham Abbey Book group

will continue online for now until the group is allowed back into the library.

This runs at 10am on the first Friday of every month.

 

Saffron Walden Welcome group

Tuesdays 1000-1200

Jubilee Gardens, Saffron Walden

27th April 2021

 

Dunmow Welcome Group

Thursday 1000-1200

Doctors pond, Dunmow

22nd April 2021

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Resources and helplines

Never Too Late Mate

Facebook support group started by a local resident who has been touched by suicide:

https://www.facebook.com/groups/nevertoolatematesupport/

 

Quinn’s Retreat

A charity offering a retreat for those bereaved by suicide.

https://quinnsretreat.org.uk/

Survivors of Bereavement By Suicide
A national charity who run a helpline and local groups
Supporting those bereaved by suicide.
https://uksobs.org/

 

INQUEST is the only charity providing expertise on state related deaths and their investigation to bereaved people, lawyers, advice and support agencies, the media and parliamentarians.
https://www.inquest.org.uk/

 

The Compassionate Friends (TCF) is a charitable organisation of bereaved parents, siblings and grandparents dedicated to the support and care of other similarly bereaved family members who have suffered the death of a child or children of any age and from any cause
https://www.tcf.org.uk/

 

The Support After Suicide Partnership brings together suicide bereavement organisations and people with lived experience, to give practical and emotional support for anyone bereaved by suicide.
https://supportaftersuicide.org.uk/

 

LGBT Foundation
A national charity delivering advice, support and information services to lesbian, gay, bisexual and trans (LGBT) communities.
http://lgbt.foundation/

 

Queer Futures
Queer Futures is a two year study that is designed to understand the experiences and perspectives of young (16-25 years old) LGBTQ people in order to help reduce their risk of self-harm and suicide.
http://www.queerfutures.co.uk/

 

CALM – Campaign against Living Miserably
Area served: National
Telephone: 0800585858
Website: www.thecalmzone.net
Services: Support and campaigning organisation against male suicide.

 

Depression UK
Area served: National
Website: www.depressionuk.org
Services: A national self-help charity promoting mutual support between individuals affected by depression, through pen and phone friend schemes, Internet Chat, and newsletters.

 

Grief Encounter
Area served: National
Telephone: 0808 802 0111(Helpline)
Website: www.griefencounter.org.uk

Services: If you are a child, teenager or adult who has experienced the death of a loved one or are a caregiver who needs advice on how to support young people following the death of a parent or sibling you can call, email or instant chat with trained professionals at grieftalk, 5 days a week, 9am – 9pm (excluding bank holidays). Please note this is a free Helpline. Email address for the helpline is grieftalk@griefencounter.org.uk and there is a webchat option on their website too.

 

Hope Again – Young People Living After Loss (up to age 18) part of CRUSE
Area served: National
Telephone: 0808 808 1677
Website: www.hopeagain.org.uk email: hopeagain@cruse.org.uk
Services: Bereavement support for young people.

 

Let’s Talk about Loss
Area served: National
Website: https://letstalkaboutloss.org

A safe online space for young people 16 – 30 who have lost a loved one to share and talk through the taboos and address the reality of losing someone close when you are young.

 

Support after Suicide Partnership (SASP)
Area served: National
Website: http://supportaftersuicide.org.uk/

Services: A network of organisations offering a whole range of practical and emotional support and signposting for anyone who has been affected by the loss of someone who has died by suicide.

 

The Bodie Hodges Foundation Memory Bags
Area served: National
Website: www.bodiehodgesfoundation.co.uk/

A charity (Nick and Donna Hodges are bereaved parents who have lost their son, Bodie and have a surviving daughter) providing memory bags containing grief resources, free of charge to families to support sibling grief.

There is a memory bag for bereaved siblings aged 12 and under and one for those aged 13 and over. The bags aim to explain how we grieve and to support an understanding of how we might feel when someone dies. Encourage children and young people to share their thoughts, feelings and worries.
Books to encourage understanding of grief.
A treasure chest to store those precious memories.
Art resources to encourage creativity.

Please contact Donna: donna.hodges@bodiehodgesfoundation.co.uk. if you would like to know more or to be sent a memory bag for a bereaved sibling.

 

The Good Grief Trust
Area served: National
Website: https://www.thegoodgrieftrust.org/

A charity offering help and hope in one online website. It is run by the bereaved for the bereaved. They try to guide you in the right direction for the support you need when you have been bereaved. This is offered through practical help and tips, support organisations and things to consider when you are bereaved. A charity offering help and hope in one online website. It is run by the bereaved for the bereaved. They try to guide you in the right direction for the support you need when you have been bereaved. This is offered through practical help and tips, support organisations and things to consider when you are bereaved.

The Good Grief Trust (www.goodgrieftrust.org) is also running a virtual café on Zoom every Wednesday evening for anyone from the LGBTQ+ community who is bereaved. Although most of the attendees are there because of the loss of a same-sex partner, husband or wife, the meet ups also include any same sex couple/gay individual who has lost a child too.
To find out more about these virtual cafes for those bereaved people from this community, parents can contact Rachael at rachael@thegoodgrieftrust.org

The Good Grief Trust also offer a sudden bereavement helpline Mon – Fri 10 am – 4pm on 0800 2600 400. This is for anyone seeking support following the loss of someone suddenly or too soon, including loss to Covid-19.

 

WAY Foundation (Widowed and Young)
Area served: National
Website: www.widowedandyoung.org.uk
Services: Peer to peer support for men and women aged 50 or under when their partner died.

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An Everyday Tale of Conservation Folk

It all began with a WhatsApp picture asking if we could “ use these”?

They were collected the same day with a use for them to be found later! Our philosophy is never turn down anything that is free and clean. Further discussion came up with the idea of making them into a cold frame for use at Colchester Allotment.

But first convert them into “components” and check they go together.

They did and so we transported the bits “IKEA style” to the site. As you may be aware, our group thrives on team projects and so we gave the kit to Dan,Glen,Simon and Shane to build.

Dan led the group but it involved teaching some new skills to the less experienced guys first :- namely drilling pilot holes for screws and using a cordless screwdriver. Simon had been taught recently and so he taught Shane thereby continuing our self perpetuating education programme. This exercise is built on the “Five Ways” and encourages Connect, Learn, Give and Be Active in one activity.

Simon was particularly appreciative for this opportunity and sent the attached message to his Service Coordinators to tell them what he felt. 

As the assembly continued, the original idea was “ tweaked”  and it was suggested that it be used as a free standing growing frame. This involved building a floor which we made from pallet wood. Glen harvested the material from the pallet, cut to appropriate lengths and Simon and Shane did the assembly under the watchful eye of “Foreman Dan”.

The next part was to make the legs which were again sourced from pallet parts and duly attached to the frame. The whole construction was then completed and is now an integral part of our decking area. First plants in are our broccoli, chard and aubergine seedlings so let’s wait and see what happens.

Well Done Team and Welcome back Stu!!

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A poem by William Wordsworth

One of our service users has sent over their favourite poem by William Wordsworth.

 

I wandered lonely as a cloud

That floats on high o’er vales and hills,

When all at once I saw a crowd,

A host, of golden daffodils;

Beside the lake, beneath the trees,

Fluttering and dancing in the breeze.

 

Continuous as the stars that shine

And twinkle on the milky way,

They stretched in never-ending line

Along the margin of a bay:

Ten thousand saw I at a glance,

Tossing their heads in sprightly dance.

 

The waves beside them danced; but they

Out-did the sparkling waves in glee:

A poet could not but be gay,

In such a jocund company:

I gazed—and gazed—but little thought

What wealth the show to me had brought:

 

For oft, when on my couch I lie

In vacant or in pensive mood,

They flash upon that inward eye

Which is the bliss of solitude;

And then my heart with pleasure fills,

And dances with the daffodils.

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World Poetry Day – 21st March

Happy World Poetry Day! To celebrate poetry day we have a few poems to share with you which our service users have written. Below is a poem by Claire on isolation and mental health during the COVID-19 pandemic.

Hanging around with the wrong people

Because I felt lonely and isolated.

Being used and abused

Because I felt lonely and isolated.

2020 comes and a pandemic arises

People start feeling lonely and isolated.

Feeling lonely and isolated is NOT a NEW feeling

Boredom, anxiety with feeling isolated and having a mental illness is where I went wrong.

Using self destructive behaviours to cope

While I carried these out for half my life

I also suffered mentally and was physically, mentally and financially abused to cure my isolation which broke me.

A pandemic has people trapped in their homes

Where I have spent most of my life trapped, lonely and isolated.

I have had urges to self destruct as the memories of being trapped come back.

I was too weird to be friends with and never established friendships with caused me to feel lonely and isolated

Using self destructive behaviours was my way to occupy myself and get me through each day.

Now I’m in the middle of a pandemic and do feel lonely and isolated BUT I’m occupying myself with positive behaviours and talking to the professionals about my frustrations and getting through each day without self destructing.

Having OCD and following routines where I undertake certain tasks at certain times keeps me occupied throughout this pandemic so grateful to have OCD.

Loneliness and isolation will continue after this pandemic for some people. Mental illness will continue after this pandemic. People will spend time in general hospitals and psychiatric wards and on long term medication after this pandemic.

2020 has been an Awakening to Mental illness but some will still suffer after 21st June.

As we exit lockdown, please remember mental illness isn’t going to go away just because we can all go to the pub, it will be a part of some people’s life forever

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Bumble Bees – parent and carer virtual group

NEW VIRTUAL GROUP!

Bumble Bees – parent and carer virtual group.

An opportunity for parents and carers to come together in the comfort of your own home. It’s a time to chat, share, get information and learn about the five ways to wellbeing.

If you’re interested in attending this group please speak to your service coordinator.

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Sign up – Newsletter round-up

To all service users and volunteers who would like to keep up to date with service updates, resources, marketing requests and much more, sign up to receive our NEW monthly newsletter.

Sign up here. 

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Reading Friends

Reading Friends is a UK-wide programme, developed with funding from the National Lottery Community Fund, which connects people by starting conversations through reading.

The Reading Agency mission is to tackle life’s big challenges, such as loneliness and isolation, through the proven power of reading. Reading Friends gives opportunities for people who are vulnerable, isolated and at risk of loneliness to meet others, share their stories, make new friends and have fun. It creates social connections and takes a person-centred approach, building on interests and hobbies of the people involved to share stories and get people talking. Delivered by volunteers and co-produced with our participants, Reading Friends meet regularly to chat and share stories in groups or one-to-one sessions.

The programme has been running since June 2017 and has seen The Reading Agency work in partnership with a range of organisations and communities to test different approaches to delivery, gradually expanding across the UK. Please note that during these difficult times, some Reading Friends projects have temporarily suspended or will be running differently. Reading Friends met face-to-face prior to Covid-19 but now our projects are starting to pilot telephone and virtual models.

Why Reading Friends matters

• Loneliness and social isolation is a significant health and wellbeing issue for older people. 8-10% of people aged 65 and older are often or always lonely, while 12% feel socially isolated
• Research shows that reading together can help older people to build social networks and connect with others. Evidence also shows that reading has a positive impact on empathy, cognitive function and wellbeing and can reduce the risk of dementia
• Age UK’s research shows that maintaining meaningful engagement with the world around you is key to wellbeing. Taking part in activities that support wellbeing is most difficult for people who are lonely and isolated or in poor health
• It also finds that creative and cultural participation makes the highest contribution to an older person’s wellbeing
• By May 2020, 41% of UK adults reported feeling lonelier since lockdown, and 1 in 3 had not had a meaningful conversation in the last week.

Get involved

If you are interested in starting Reading Friends, volunteering or joining a group, please sign up now. In the meantime, take a look at our Stay Connected! resources which give plenty of tips, activities, ideas and links to support you during this time

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